Not by force, but by flow

A good omen, and Join me this Thursday.

Happy Tuesday, Champ. First up today— a good omen! Then some recent wins on the Chill to Flow tip. We close with an invite to our first community class, this Thursday: “Increase your pay in uncertain times” AKA Permission to Glow in the Dark. ⚡️

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The good news.

Oxford defines omen as “…an event, regarded as a portent of good or evil.”

In these wild times of rapid change, we need Good Omens. Yesterday, Moon Omens dropped a beauty:

“When you open your heart, soften your edges, and let love pour out of your soul, the right things begin to arrive— effortlessly. Not by force, but by flow.”

First, we Chill. Then, we flow.

I smiled, and it gave me chills. I’ve run experiments in Permission to Chill these last few weeks. Allowing is the most direct path to the goal. It literally draws angels and allies. It has always been this way, even when I worked too hard to prove worthiness.

Last night, my dear friend, mystic, and teacher Theresa O’Connor confirmed this. I updated her on my healing road of recovery since my divorce. Her team of guides stepped into my field for psychic surgery. She said “When it comes to directing our energy, we have 4 options: to push, to pull, to pause, or to allow.”

I urge you to reflect on this.

When it comes to creating the love, job, the money, or the life you deserve. Ask yourself: Am I…

1. 🤔 pushing too hard?

2. 🤔 pulling it to me?

3. 🤔 disengaged, on pause?

4. 🤩 allowing it to flow to me?

Allowing feels like a high level of spiritual practice and working out. Like tenderizing my body and mind into receiving position. In that mode, all antennae are up, and we can hear Spirit speaking to us.

Theresa informed me there was 10% of my energy still in the push. She kindly removed that, and I felt the lift. It’s more like a higher gear, coasting energy. Plenty to do, but it somehow feels manageable. Like who I’ve always been.

Case Study #1

Last week felt like finals week after my surrender experiments. In Charleston, I sat in rooms with Avenger-level thinkers, and facilitators for global positive change. Most have pHD’s in their respective fields, but not me. 🤗 I have 10,000 hours teaching, coaching, and speaking my truth. And, my guitar. The wisdom and love flowing through that space had the Love Canon energy of India. Except now, I’m in a dress shirt. Now, I’m being deployed as part of a team. Working in India just moved from an intention in my journal— to a manifested next step.

We want to believe this is how the world works. But does our calendar and stress level support the belief? How often are we slowing down to speed up? Our culture still values the hustle and grind approach, and many of us (like me) feel we need to “sing for our supper.”

Spacious urgency.

A term that’s sticking with me came from my new friend and ally Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa, celebrated Columbia professor of leadership and author of “Inner Mastery, Outer Impact— How Your 5 Core Energies Hold the Key to Success”. He calls it Spacious Urgency.

Let’s move forward with spacious urgency. With the passion and purpose to meet the moment— but not at the expense of our love, chill, or clarity. In that cave of silence, will sit out any storms.

Then, we will rise to meet them. ⚡️🔥

Join us! This Thursday, April 17th.

Topic: Increase your pay in uncertain times.
Monthly theme: P3: Permission Glow in the Dark
Time: Apr 17, 2025 12:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

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